{"id":207,"date":"2024-07-01T20:28:23","date_gmt":"2024-07-01T20:28:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elizabethdoman.com\/?p=207"},"modified":"2025-10-06T21:56:05","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T02:56:05","slug":"writers-block","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/?p=207","title":{"rendered":"Writer&#8217;s Block"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>First, a post by someone with more experience in all the aspects than me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/maryrobinettekowal.com\/journal\/sometimes-writers-block-is-really-depression\/\">https:\/\/maryrobinettekowal.com\/journal\/sometimes-writers-block-is-really-depression\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mary Robinette Kowal is the author of, among other things, the Lady Astronaut of Mars series, the Glamourist Histories, and The Spare Man, which I just finished in audio book recently. Her post from November of 2015 talks about her encounter with &#8220;Writer&#8217;s Block&#8221; and her dissection of what writer&#8217;s block is. In her case, she was running up against depression that kept her from having the energy or motivation to write.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I agree with her assessment that Writer&#8217;s Block isn&#8217;t really a thing. The word and expression are an easy way to say &#8220;Well, looks like it&#8217;s just not happening today, guess I&#8217;ll move on.&#8221; And to accept that means to let the metaphorical giant concrete block sit on your metaphorical writing table until you are, technically, no longer a writer. Mary Robinette says, instead of just accepting that label and letting it stop you, look at what&#8217;s really stopping you. Is it in the book? Is it external? What exactly are you having difficulty with? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes the answer to that is there&#8217;s something in the story you don&#8217;t want to write. If yes, congratulations, you&#8217;ve identified it! And as we all know, knowing is half the battle. Sometimes it&#8217;s external. Again, though, once identified, it can be dealt with! For the most part for further dives into these aspects, I&#8217;m going to refer you to her linked post because she does a better job at explaining it than I will. <em>Editor&#8217;s note: Also I&#8217;m trying to post this fast because, yet again, I didn&#8217;t cue one up for this week so I need to get this posted before life moves on and I miss a Monday.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She also found that sometimes, for her, what was stopping her was depression. I&#8217;ve had similar struggles in my writing history and, while I don&#8217;t really think depression is a big factor for me, anxiety and stress certainly are. When I feel like I&#8217;ve got too much on my plate, when I feel like I&#8217;m rowing frantically to keep from falling off a waterfall, writing can often feel like one thing too many. The fun part is, not writing can add to my stress because I feel like I&#8217;m neglecting it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So why do I keep doing it? Well, being a career author is what I want. I&#8217;ve observed that there are a lot of different futures or careers I could have that I&#8217;d find interesting, but in all of my daydreams about them, I keep wanting to find time to write. Telling stories and building characters is something I love. So writing is something I need to do. Not to check off a list, but for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What does that mean when I&#8217;m not writing? Well, sometimes it means that yes, there is a lot on my plate and whether I put it there myself or life gave me an extra-large helping for the month, I need to accept the fact that there&#8217;s a temporary re-prioritization. But I <em>also<\/em> need to realize that, when the current crisis is over, I need to get myself back into the habit of making time to write again. For me, having a daily chart works well. It&#8217;s been an effective strategy for my kids as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s where we&#8217;re sitting right now, I think. I&#8217;ve had a hard time writing this summer and it took me a little while to realize that I was trying to push myself too far and therefore needed to give myself a little grace. But also acknowledge to myself that when the busy period comes to an end, I need to be ready to move forward. I&#8217;ve not been immobile- I had some fun researching into (or at least skimming the surface of) space science like solar winds and solar sails (which do not interact as far as I can tell), doing some illustrating, and so forth, but I&#8217;ve also been allowing relaxing time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That being said, we&#8217;re coming up to the end so I&#8217;ll be ramping back up soon. I will also be doing a better job making sure I have posts queued up before Monday morning. Coming soon, I will actually be writing that alternate-magic world story and having a discussion on character development in Babylon 5.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Signing off until next time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Intellectual Property of Elizabeth Doman<br>Feel free to share via link<br>Do not copy to other websites or skim for AI training<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First, a post by someone with more experience in all the aspects than me: https:\/\/maryrobinettekowal.com\/journal\/sometimes-writers-block-is-really-depression\/ [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,25],"tags":[202,206,201,205,200,204,203,199,45],"class_list":["post-207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-posts","category-writing","tag-anxiety","tag-career","tag-depression","tag-goals","tag-mary-robinette-kowal","tag-overcoming","tag-strategies","tag-writers-block","tag-writing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=207"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":209,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207\/revisions\/209"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.elizabethdoman.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}